Right Speech & Realistic Intention : The Buddha’s Eight Fold Path Explained | 1/27/2018

Right Speech and Realistic Intention : The Buddha’s Eight Fold Path Explained with Robert A.F. Thurman & Mark Epstein M.D. from the Annual Tibet House US Buddhism and Psychotherapy Program, Recorded at Menla in Phoenicia, New York August 2016

In this short video Robert A.F. Thurman & Mark Epstein M.D. discuss the Buddha’s Four Noble Truths & 8 Fold Path. Includes a discussion of the translation of the terms “Right Speech” VS “Realistic Speech” when discussing Speech and Intention in regards to the 8 Fold Path.

 

“Conventionally, right speech refers to how we speak to others, but I also believe it can help us pay attention to how we speak to ourselves. There are grievances we cling to and narratives we weave to try to understand ourselves. There is often a desire for retribution or a need to blame, and there are certainly many occasions when this is completely justified.

Validation of suffering is really only the beginning of a successful therapy. Affirmation is important— there are many times when people have suffered but are unwilling to admit the extent of their pain—but so is the discovery that one is more than one’s story.

This is not advice I could actually give many people in the midst of therapy—but it is my version of right speech nonetheless. The point of telling one’s story in therapy is to be released from the hold it has over you, to set yourself free, not to reinforce the way it defines you.

If there is one thing I have learned from my years as a Buddhist therapist, it is that we need not be limited by our stories. We are much more mysterious than they are.”

Mark Epstein M.D. from www.tricycle.org.

 

“Blown Away By Nirvana and the Buddha’s Eight Fold Path” is an archive recording from the “Addiction, Depression & Recovery: Buddhist Psychological Insights for Mental & Spiritual Health in the Modern World” with Robert A.F. Thurman & Mark Epstein M.D. Tibet House US Weekend Retreat, recorded at Menla’s Nalanda Conference Center in Phoenicia, New York, August 2016.

RIght Speech Photo by Ryan McGuire. Right Speech and Realistic Intention : The Buddha’s Eight Fold Path Explained with Robert A.F. Thurman & Mark Epstein M.D. from the Annual Tibet House US Buddhism and Psychotherapy Program, Recorded at Menla in Phoenicia, New York August 2016
To listen to an audio recording from this weekend retreat at please visit www.bobthurman.com. Episode #124 of the Bob Thurman Podcast “Buddhism 101: Four Noble Truths” can be downloaded via iTunes or your favorite podcasting platform.

Full Session includes guided meditations, dialog with participants, providing the context of the Buddha’s Nirvana, The Four Noble Truths & The Eight Fold Path.

Additional previews are available on the Tibet House US YouTube Channel + Full Archive Recordings in the THUS Member Archives. Access starts at $2 a Month. To watch the full videos please visit:

First Session with Bob Thurman + Mark Epstein M.D.
Second Session with Bob Thurman + Mark Epstein M.D.

To learn more about upcoming programs in the heart of the Catskills with Bob Thurman & Mark Epstein M.D. please visit: www.menla.us.

“Right Speech” Photo, Created with love by Ryan McGuire. via www.gratisography.com.

About Mark Epstein, M.D

Mark Epstein, M.D. is a psychiatrist in New York City and the author of a number of books about the interface of Buddhism & psychotherapy, including Thoughts without a Thinker, Going to Pieces without Falling Apart, Going on Being, Open to Desire, Psychotherapy without the Self & The Trauma of Everyday Life. He received his undergraduate and medical degrees from Harvard University and is currently Clinical Assistant Professor in the Postdoctoral Program in Psychotherapy and Psychoanalysis at New York University.

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